Get over him/her. He's/She's not even worth it. He/She is not worth your time or your tears. Yeah you loved him/her, I know that. And I know you just can't see yourself with anyone other than him/her, I get that. I've been there. But why should you spend all your time sitting at home, bawling your eyes out and wondering where he/she is and who he/she is with. Do you honestly think he/she is thinking about you? No. Sure it hurts, the fact that he/she is out there falling in and out of love with other girls/boys. Yeah your going to see him/her with one of his new girlfriends/boyfriends. Prepare yourself, cause straighten up: its gonna hurt. He/she will hold her/him a little closer and squeeze her/his hand a little tighter just because he/she knows your watching. He/she knows its killing you; that's why he/she will do it. Don't let him/her get to you because of that, well thats exactly what he/she wants. Don't give him/her what he/she wants. He/she doesn't even deserve it. So what if he/she doesn't talk to you; do you honestly wanna be friends with a jerk like him/her anyways? The thing is I know you still do. But give it time. Because all he/she would do is talk about his/her new girlfriend/boyfriend and just try and make you jealous, do you really wanna hear that? No. Screw him/her and his/her girlfriend/boyfriend. He/she will be sorry. Trust me. When he/she finally sees you with some other guy/girl who's not him/her. With that huge grin on your face and your boyfriend/girlfriend holding you close, he/she will realize how happy you are now. And how happy your boyfriend/girlfriend is because he/she has you; the girl/boy of his/her dreams. He/she will realize the huge mistake he/she made when he/she let you go, when he/she decided to choose her/him over you. When he/she decided he/she just did not love you the same. Trust me, he/she will be sorry. And don't you sit there thinking he/she won't be sorry I know you are. But I guarantee you now; He/she will be sorry. So don't go on spending your nights waiting for that one phone call you know your never going to get. Or that text you know he/she will never send you simple because he/she likes to ignore you. He/she likes to pretend he/she doesn't see you online, he/she does it out of spite just because he/she knows its killing you. When he/she walks past you in the hallways he/she is gonna look past you, but you need to know he/she will do that cause he/she know somewhere inside you, it will hurt. I'm not gonna lie to you. It will hurt. It'll hurt a lot. But it will hurt even more when you see her/his name and how much he/she loves her/him in his/her profile. Its all gonna hurt. Knowing your not the girl/boy that's making him /her smile. Knowing your not the first person he/she thinks of when he/she wakes up and the last before going to sleep. Knowing your not the face on his/her backgrounds anymore. Knowing if he/she hasn't already he/she will delete the album of you he/she has on his/her phone. Knowing you won't be spending every single moment with him/her. Knowing there's not gonna be no more late night phone calls arguing who loves who most. And you know what, today, tomorrow, next week, months from now; your phone will go off with a text message, you will instantly grab your phone hoping its him/her saying he/she wants to give your relationship another shot. But trust me; he's/she's got too much pride. Even if he/she wanted to get back with you, he/she wouldn't tell you. Your soon gonna realize he/she doesn't care about you anymore and he/she won't be the first person you call when your upset. He/she won't be the one to put your smile back on your face. And yeah its gonna hurt; its gonna hurt a lot. But you know what your gonna do? Your gonna hold your head up. Your gonna show him/her that your better than him/her and you don't need him/her in your life. Your gonna prove to him/her that he/she made the biggest mistake of his/her life letting you go and that you never really needed him/her anyways.
I posted this over a year ago now and i felt like it should be shared again.
This was not thought up by me but I've felt like it's needed to be seen more so I'm sharing it but I did not write this I don't take credit for this.
I posted this over a year ago now and i felt like it should be shared again.
This was not thought up by me but I've felt like it's needed to be seen more so I'm sharing it but I did not write this I don't take credit for this.
