Respect.

[PandaPanda]

There's too many people on MCPZ who feel sad and worthless. We need to create a support thread in which people can vent and we can try to support others. Too much is happening to everyone and it's tearing my friends apart, and we all just need to be happy (Like we deserve) and support eachother. And in this thread, any negativity will be deleted immediately. I would appreciate a mod or member of a higher rank to support this and delete negativity (Although I believe that MCPZ is a kind community and wouldn't do such a thing, but just in case).

Commandments:

1. Respect towards everyone, no exceptions.
2. No egos. If a highly-respected person wants to cry into a shoulder, let him/her.
3. Never give up. Someone has been positively affected by your presence out there, trust me.

And, if you feel your issue is very personal and would like to vent privately, feel free to message me. I promise that I would never turn down a request to help others, and anyone who would purposely ignore another's sadness for their own convenience and self-pleasures is a sick person. Of course, if you can't, that's a whole other story, but still, please try to help others. It's just a good thing to do for them and you.

Helpful links I found:

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Note: Some of these allow profanity, so view at your own will.

http://blahtherapy.com/ - Vent to others anonymously for free.
http://www.muttr.com/ - Post a vent/advice message anonymously for others to see.

 

[PandaPanda]

How bad I need to vent. ooo. Its kind of funny. I kind of hate my life.

That's okay. We all hate things about our lives, some more than others. That is the point of this, right? To help one-another. And as long as I live, I will put my upmost effort to make everyone here feel loved and valued.

 

[FabDuckie]

I feel like everyone on this server is against me. Everyone. All these people msging, people I thought were my friends, calling me things like "dick" and "smart ***" Im not really enjoying life right now.

 

[PandaPanda]

I feel like everyone on this server is against me. Everyone. All these people msging, people I thought were my friends, calling me things like "dick" and "smart ***" Im not really enjoying life right now.

I'm sorry, I don't know why anyone would say those things.

 

[FabDuckie]

I'm sorry, I don't know why anyone would say those things.

I forgive you, even though you were one of the people telling me things likes this.):

 

[PandaPanda]

I forgive you, even though you were one of the people telling me things likes this.):

I was? I don't recall when, but please believe that I wouldn't have meant it. You're a great friend and a brilliant person, and you don't deserve to be called those things, even though I am at fault. And I'm sorry.

EDIT: It was because of the incident with the "other person" right? Please believe me, it was a misconception, I hadn't known you were one of the good guys. Please forgive me, even though I don't believe I deserve it.

 

[FabDuckie]

I was? I don't recall when, but please believe that I wouldn't have meant it. You're a great friend and a brilliant person, and you don't deserve to be called those things, even though I am at fault. And I'm sorry.

EDIT: It was because of the incident with the "other person" right? Please believe me, it was a misconception, I hadn't known you were one of the good guys. Please forgive me, even though I don't believe I deserve it.

Its fine, I understand you made a mistake
Edit: (More rant) And now none of my friends are talking to me because of a former staff member. Why me? I have had enough ;-;

 

[Infinite]

Its fine, I understand you made a mistake
Edit: (More rant) And now none of my friends are talking to me because of a former staff member. Why me? I have had enough ;-;

I would talk to you but we're on at different times.

 

[Dynam_Rezinor]

I'll be honest here. I'm......well....afraid of not looking at my laptop or smartphone when I'm at home for more than 5-10 minutes...I suppose you could make an analogy relating me (or anyone who constantly procrastinates and is always fighting the urge to give in to their addiction) to a drug addict. Now I do realize this sounds silly but it's a real problem that almost everyone in the world is facing. I can't finish my work on time, get things done, finish reading the books I like or just sleep. It's really the most annoying feeling ever. Every time I restrain myself I just go back to things the way they were. And don't even get me started on schedules. Making schedules is ridiculously overwhelming and it never works because I can't always remind myself. And I need sleep to be better at reminding myself so I can make a schedule which I need for sleep. I need one thing for the other. This for that. That for this. If only there was a simple plan. I know I can do it all and I'm determined to but, for some reason, it's unbelievably difficult.

Now I know no one here is a life improvement guru but........I really need to take a break from all of this social media stuff.

 

[PandaPanda]

I'll be honest here. I'm......well....afraid of not looking at my laptop or smartphone when I'm at home for more than 5-10 minutes...I suppose you could make an analogy relating me (or anyone who constantly procrastinates and is always fighting the urge to give in to their addiction) to a drug addict. Now I do realize this sounds silly but it's a real problem that almost everyone in the world is facing. I can't finish my work on time, get things done, finish reading the books I like or just sleep. It's really the most annoying feeling ever. Every time I restrain myself I just go back to things the way they were. And don't even get me started on schedules. Making schedules is ridiculously overwhelming and it never works because I can't always remind myself. And I need sleep to be better at reminding myself so I can make a schedule which I need for sleep. I need one thing for the other. This for that. That for this. If only there was a simple plan. I know I can do it all and I'm determined to but, for some reason, it's unbelievably difficult.

Now I know no one here is a life improvement guru but........I really need to take a break from all of this social media stuff.

I feel you man, priorities have become more of a mental issue... deciding whether or not internet activity is more important. And while I'm thinking about this, I'm just wasting more time... And it's just flustering.

This may be easy coming from a realist's mouth like myself, but try to minimalize everything. Look at the long-term factors of other things, and see the internet as just a hunk of metal that allows you to cool, communication things... but in the long term it's near useless. Maybe slowly divert from the internet, maybe by a few minutes every day... And offer yourself an award for doing so. Use a parent or guardian as an enforcer, possibly. Continue until you have enough time to do everything you need to do, and possibly further to reinforce that you don't slip away to go online. Because the second you go online more than you should, it'll continue in a downwards spiral. Will it be easy? No. Will you feel like giving up, wanting with all your heart to go online? Of course. But believe me, all the pain it may bring you, will be worth it when your grades start to improve, when you feel better every morning because of a longer sleep, and when you have a new outlook on life... not bombarded by technological gadgets, but enjoying life for what it originally was.

Best of luck to you man, I really hope this helps.

 

[Jayyy]

I feel like everyone on this server is against me. Everyone. All these people msging, people I thought were my friends, calling me things like "dick" and "smart ***" Im not really enjoying life right now.

I have exact same thing, I always have this feeling.

 

[Oreo_balls]

2. No egos. If a highly-respected person wants to cry into a shoulder, let him.

Not all highly respected people are male, I would appreciate it if you said 'them' rather than 'him'.
Nice thread by the way.

 

[PandaPanda]

Not all highly respected people are male, I would appreciate it if you said 'them' rather than 'him'.
Nice thread by the way.

I hadn't intended it in that way, so I will change it. Thanks for pointing it out

Edit (This is only an "Edit" because I can't double post): Want to know what I want to do? I want to head to a soundproof room and just scream to a relatable song. Just scream my heart out until I can't any longer.

 

[Pixelsmedia4]

Turn off your computer and do something about the problems you have in life?

 

[PandaPanda]

Turn off your computer and do something about the problems you have in life?

It never hurts to be given support from a friend. I do, however, suggest that anyone with thoughts of depression or other serious mental predicaments seek therapeutical or medical help.

 

[Dragazo571]

Turn off your computer and do something about the problems you have in life?

^
I really don't have any other problem's then getting bullied
But some how I always find a way to make the bully surrender.

 

[snowopsia]

I would rant but my personal issues should not be included here, in my opinion.

 

[Dynam_Rezinor]

Turn off your computer and do something about the problems you have in life?

Here's the answer to all of our personal problems. Now, if only we weren't so ignorant.

 

[PandaPanda]

Here's the answer to all of our personal problems. Now, if only we weren't so ignorant.

You'd think after millions of years of evolution our entire species would evolve to be respectful, sympathetic, kind. But no, we've been given the trait from our ancestors to ignore emotion and live as killing machines. We steal, cheat, and stomp on the begging hands of others (While they're down, helpless).

The only way our ignorance could be put to use is if we had no emotion whatsoever, which is almost desirable in a way, but in another oddly unforgiving.

 

[GreenUprooter]

You'd think after millions of years of evolution our entire species would evolve to be respectful, sympathetic, kind. But no, we've been given the trait from our ancestors to ignore emotion and live as killing machines. We steal, cheat, and stomp on the begging hands of others (While they're down, helpless).

The only way our ignorance could be put to use is if we had no emotion whatsoever, which is almost desirable in a way, but in another oddly unforgiving.

According to Star Trek, in about 50-80 years humanity will become perfect. Do you see that happening?