My 2017 resolution for you

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Arujann

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I know that the world is a scary place right now, it's our job to work together to make the best of it because it's what we've been given and we have to make the best of it. All that matters is you knowing that you're worth it. You're beautiful, so many people love and adore you and there's not one reason in the world to think badly of yourself. You're special. Despite how frightening everything is right now, you are the person who can make the difference. You can make the world a better place for yourself and everyone around you just by being yourself. This is cheesy, I know- but it's true. I have struggled my entire life with my body image, my sexuality, my ethnicity, my self esteem, and so much more but I have learned that just because I don't see much in myself doesn't mean that someone else doesn't. Just because some person doesn't want to be with you doesn't mean all hope is lost. You're everything that someone out there is looking for, and you don't need to be beating yourself up because you weren't "good enough" for someone who couldn't see the best of you, who couldn't love you as much as you wanted, who you couldn't make happy. That person is out there.

We're all young, we make mistakes- and we learn from those mistakes. 2017 most likely, for me at least, will not be an easy year. It will most likely be full of violence, injustice, and discrimination- but you need to keep the faith, because despite what it may seem like- it will get better. In 10 years time, you'll look back to 2016 and think about how it made you so much stronger, having to overcome the obstacles and hurdles it threw at you. I will continue to stand up for everyone who is discriminated against because of their religion, sexuality, gender, race, financial situation, or any other scenario where they don't fit into the "normal." The world is not an easy place, but it gets a little bit better when you can share your time here with people you love. For the past few years of my life, I have spoken out against inequality and injustice against people everywhere and I am prepared to continue to do that for the rest of my life, or at least until we are all treated equally. Just because you are different doesn't mean someone doesn't love you. There's someone out there who absolutely adores the things that you hate most about yourself.

We're all warriors, we all have our battle scars- whether that be fighting with other people or ourselves, whether it be a mental fight or a physical fight, whether those scars are deep or light- we all have them. They all made us who we are today, and have made us stronger than we would be if we didn't have them. In 2016, I had my first heartbreak. It was hard, yeah- but since then I have learned to overcome that and focus more on loving myself than another person. You don't need someone else to make you happy. Just because you think you're pretty doesn't make you conceited or self centered. Just because you don't like how you look doesn't mean that you're feeling bad for yourself or looking for attention. Just because someone makes fun of you for something that's different about you, doesn't mean that you're not beautiful.

Words are like knives, they could kill you, they could cut you, they could scare you- it's just how you interpret them. I want to propose a resolution for 2017 for everyone, throughout the course of 2017- no matter how hard it is, how much it hurts you, how much you want to give up- don't lose faith in yourself. Please don't give up, you're worth it. Believe me. If you ever need something, PLEASE message me. I love to help out with problems, I love seeing people happy and will do anything to make sure that you're doing okay. I love you.

Happy New Year.
 
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2017 most likely, for me at least, will not be an easy year. It will most likely be full of violence, injustice, and discrimination-
Arujann is a hitman confirmed.
 
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Ill do this. Same for me, my year will probably be full of violence and injistice too. But not as bad as the way youve put it. I ned to overcome more obstacles in 2017 than i did in 2016, especially with being in the youngest year in my new school. Its scary for me since im in a new scenery and there is a lot of swearing, fighting, and violence there. Where i live people dont care what they do, i live in a rough part of england which me and my friends dont think is good for our surroundings and our lives. We are trying to not become like everyone else, since all of the other kids in our year suddenly started swearing, talking in slang all the time, Plus ive already lost one friend to it. That might make it sound like a monster, trust me it is. I have 2 resolutions, Id like to try and stay 'sane' where i live so that i can do what i want to do when i get older, to get enough marks on my GCSEs to go to college and then university.
2. The one you mentioned above
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This sounds like a supportive Youtube video and I love it. *Sheds tear*
 
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This is so amazing, I love this.
I had to read it over and over because each time I did I felt like I had support. Arujann, thank you for this. I'll put this on my resolution list. <3
Extremely inspiring.
 
I love this so much. It definently helped because I was going through some rough times for the past couple of days and this really did help. Thank you So much @Arujann
 
This made my day as well, thank you Arujann. Personally your one of my favorite helpers/moderator and this made me have a whole other perspective of you. Thanks for being a awesome person! Happy New Year.<3
 
This is beautiful.
 
This made me so happy <3 Thank you for making my day and I will think about this during the course of this year!
 
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This really made my 2017, heh, thank you. It's only been an hour and a half in for me, and I already feel like breaking down. This is the kind of thing that makes me say "pick yourself up and do something, you can't just sit there and watch the burning building crumble around you! get up and put out the fire."


so, i thank you for this, and that was beautiful. 2016 has been one of the, if not the, roughest years of my life, and 2017 only brings more stress and fear, so i thank you. i needed this. this kind of post makes me feel like a question that has been tugging at the back of my mind is not only completely fine, but that someone out there will be like "so what? i still love you for who you are."
so thank you.





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<3 As long as you have friendship and love, you'll all make it through the year. Trust me. Stay positive guys, and remember that we're all here for you. No matter what happens.

"Have a gay New Year!" ;)
 
I love this more than I love you, and I love you a lot Arujann
 
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