I Need to Vent.

[SilverAkita]

It pains me
Knowing someone dislikes me because I have a girlfriend. (Not gonna name so we're just gonna call my girlfriend "Girly"
See...Girly has a few friends who don't really have anything to do with me.
Wanna know why?
Because they want Girly to be THEIR bae.
Which upsets me that they dislike me because they wish they had Girly for themself.
Like, they didnt take in consideration that I am an amazing person to talk to and a really nice friend.
I have an amazing personality and basically everyone could get along with me.

I don't understand....

Edit: Now Girly's friends are shaming her and bothering her about how we've kept our secret that were dating from them. They have no right, they should just accept Girly for who she is...
Why can't we just live in a community where loving someone isn't frowned upon.

Thanks for reading.

 

[aiden]

lol
why ppl do dat lol
that's like hating someone for eating a cookie because they want the cookie

 

[alexithymia]

humans are weird creatures. we see something we want, and if anyone else takes that away from us, we despise them for taking away our 'happiness', and we dont care whether it's something better for the thing we want, because in out minds we are the embodiment of perfect since this life is all we've ever known and all we ever will know. but what do i know?

 

[calico]

Thats just wrong :c

 

[$$$]

People will find any way to destroy happiness to claim something that's not theirs. I am deeply sorry that this situation is going on for you, hopefully Girly's friends will take in consideration and speak with you to get to know the great person you are.

 

[Amandq]

If they're being a nuisance I would just cut them away from your life and advise Girly to do the same. Show her all your love and affection and tell her you'll never give up no matter what other people feel about you two being together.

 

[xxx]

Awh...

 

[Groaning]

It pains me
Knowing someone dislikes me because I have a girlfriend. (Not gonna name so we're just gonna call my girlfriend "Girly"
See...Girly has a few friends who don't really have anything to do with me.
Wanna know why?
Because they want Girly to be THEIR bae.
Which upsets me that they dislike me because they wish they had Girly for themself.
Like, they didnt take in consideration that I am an amazing person to talk to and a really nice friend.
I have an amazing personality and basically everyone could get along with me.

I don't understand....

Edit: Now Girly's friends are shaming her and bothering her about how we've kept our secret that were dating from them. They have no right, they should just accept Girly for who she is...
Why can't we just live in a community where loving someone isn't frowned upon.

Thanks for reading.

Alright well I really wasn't going to comment on this thread because it hits close to home so I was going to avoid it but eh.. Why not; Alright so basically her friends dislike you because they want said "Girly" to be theirs and only theirs rather than be with you, So there trying to influence "Girly" to hang around with them more rather than you; The way you've described it makes it seem like they're been utterly pathetic. I mean that may sound rude but if "Girly" is a nice person and you sit down and point out what they're doing I'm sure she'd realise it.. I mean by "Girlfriend" I assume you mean dating, Correct me if I'm wrong but it seems that way.

Anywho, The fact that you're the one with her already basically gives you somewhat an advantage, I mean if you literally think about it "Girly" chose to talk to YOU and she'd most likely respect your opinion, And it seems that she has judging by your Edit message, If her "friends" are shaming her and bothering her over a situation that she WANTS to be in and is happy with aka been with you if they were her real friends they wouldn't be shaming her.

The best advice to give is to cut ties with fake people; Honestly they provide nothing but drama and heartache I know that from experience I've personally had a lot of fake friends and girlfriends and there is no use in sticking in that situation when there's always an alternative in "Girly" case she could easily enough drop these fake friends and spend more time with you and finding new friends in general.

At the end of the day you're both happy talking to each other and been with each other so honestly screw what they think; If you're happy then you're happy and that's that, If they want to name and shame they can but you n' "Girly" know the truth and as long as your both happy then that's all that matters at the end of the day.

Sorry if that's a tad long, Anywho I hope you and "Girly" are doing okay throughout this and come out better from it; It'll only make you stronger. Thanks for sharing.