Dear reader...
This post is targeted at anyone who is going through something or anyone who may just be having a bad day.
However, I think that everyone should pay attention to the message as a reminder that we all need positivity in our lives.
Are you ok? I hope you are ok. But it is ok, to not be ok.
What’s wrong? You may not want to talk about it. I understand.
As a community we are all very friendly, supporting and strong, within this community there is a great bond between ranked players and non-ranked players, and between staff and all players. (I must say that the staff on this server are by far some of the nicest people I’ve ever met. They are so down to earth and I have so much respect for them and for their work on helping this amazing community. Big thanks to all of you!
)
However, there can be some downfalls to being a community based around a virtual server, we never truly know how someone is feeling. We can be oblivious to those who are hurting.
If you are hurting, you are never alone.
Sometimes the worst of days can make you feel so isolated, that you may begin to doubt the people who care about you. People care, more people care than you may think!
If you feel like you can’t find anyone who cares. I care!
— If you need someone to speak to, pm me. I am here for you. Even if you don’t know me, I will listen as I know what it feels like to want to talk about your feelings yet not know who to turn to. —
If you are having a bad day remember that days will not always be as bad as they feel like they are right now. There are obstacles in life, it’s unfortunate but you will never become better if you do not get over these obstacles. Never give up.
Try to think positive.
Look on the bright side of your life - your day may have been bad, but what was the good in your day? “Bad day” is just a generalisation. There is something good in every day, even if it is so small.
Do not focus on the bad things - you won’t make yourself feel any better.
Try to worry less - worrying means you suffer twice, and that’s suggesting that your worry may come true. (Which it doesn’t normally, does it? I have suffered so many times because I’m overreacting about possibilities that only have the slightest of chances, worrying gets you nowhere.)
I know... and I realise... that the majority of these things are easier said than done. But don’t doubt yourself, positivity doesn’t always come at an instant. I am still working on it too.
Take a little time out of your day to make sure that somebody is ok. Compliment someone! Tell them you care. Speak to someone that you wouldn’t usually speak to. You could make somebody’s day, just by saying a simple “Hello!” You have the power to give positivity and by knowing that you can make somebody else happy can make you happier than you think!
Thank you for taking the time to read this reminder that we all need some form of positivity in our lives. Now why don’t you spread some of your own?
Remember, you choose to be happy and you hold the power of positivity.
This post is targeted at anyone who is going through something or anyone who may just be having a bad day.
However, I think that everyone should pay attention to the message as a reminder that we all need positivity in our lives.
Are you ok? I hope you are ok. But it is ok, to not be ok.
What’s wrong? You may not want to talk about it. I understand.
As a community we are all very friendly, supporting and strong, within this community there is a great bond between ranked players and non-ranked players, and between staff and all players. (I must say that the staff on this server are by far some of the nicest people I’ve ever met. They are so down to earth and I have so much respect for them and for their work on helping this amazing community. Big thanks to all of you!
)However, there can be some downfalls to being a community based around a virtual server, we never truly know how someone is feeling. We can be oblivious to those who are hurting.
If you are hurting, you are never alone.
Sometimes the worst of days can make you feel so isolated, that you may begin to doubt the people who care about you. People care, more people care than you may think!
If you feel like you can’t find anyone who cares. I care!
— If you need someone to speak to, pm me. I am here for you
. Even if you don’t know me, I will listen as I know what it feels like to want to talk about your feelings yet not know who to turn to. —If you are having a bad day remember that days will not always be as bad as they feel like they are right now. There are obstacles in life, it’s unfortunate but you will never become better if you do not get over these obstacles. Never give up.
Try to think positive.
Look on the bright side of your life - your day may have been bad, but what was the good in your day? “Bad day” is just a generalisation. There is something good in every day, even if it is so small.
Do not focus on the bad things - you won’t make yourself feel any better.
Try to worry less - worrying means you suffer twice, and that’s suggesting that your worry may come true. (Which it doesn’t normally, does it? I have suffered so many times because I’m overreacting about possibilities that only have the slightest of chances, worrying gets you nowhere.)
I know... and I realise... that the majority of these things are easier said than done. But don’t doubt yourself, positivity doesn’t always come at an instant. I am still working on it too.
Take a little time out of your day to make sure that somebody is ok. Compliment someone! Tell them you care. Speak to someone that you wouldn’t usually speak to. You could make somebody’s day, just by saying a simple “Hello!” You have the power to give positivity and by knowing that you can make somebody else happy can make you happier than you think!
Thank you for taking the time to read this reminder that we all need some form of positivity in our lives. Now why don’t you spread some of your own?
Remember, you choose to be happy and you hold the power of positivity
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