I'm Nervous

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Okay so school is just around the corner and I'm scared as heck. I'm not very sociable so uh.... heh. I'm also getting my hair dyed very soon and I'm scared of what others will think. Do you guys have any advice for me? I'm a bit worried I won't survive school for very long. I hope you guys are doing well in school <3!
 
I don't think anyone will mind. Even if they did, they are entitled to their own opinion as you are to yours. Just ignore them, really. That's my mindset at least, haha. No one should judge you for that sorta stuff. If dyed hair is something you want, no one should put you down about it. <3
 
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I'm not very sociable anymore either. I used to be, till I started getting this nervous feeling in my stomach whenever I do nearly anything.
What I do to get rid of nervous feelings is to watch someone I like, for example I watch old funny videos of my favorite youtubers. If that doesn't work, Then I take a walk around the house and back, then lay in bed and think of animals/play with my companions~pets~ {I absolutely love animals, I find them better than humans in every way}. It works for me, but it might not work for you. If it doesn't work, then Im sorry.

Just remember, a lot of the people around you are probably feeling the same as you. Nervous or worried of what others think. You're never alone C:

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You plan to dye your hair? I bet you'll look A W E S O M E !
 
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I bet you’ll look FABULOUSSS!! Just be yourself, and even if you have those two good friends, it’s better than let’s say 50 people who don’t like you at all but use you. I bet you’ll do great!
 
RenataRose said:
First of all!
What color!? :D

And second!

There is absolutely nothing to be nervous about. I'm sure 99.9% of the people will be amazed then anything
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Well you see I'm actually just getting highlights, but the color is blonde :) Also thank you for the great advice haha, have a great morning/afternoon/night! Lots of love!!!!! <3
 
To be honest, i dont think people will make fun of you. I think people will reallt like youe hair! Don't worry about it!
 
i get it, social anxiety is a pain.
but tbh i dont think anyone would care, but i can tell it'll look good
 
EommaKai123 said:
Well you see I'm actually just getting highlights, but the color is blonde :) Also thank you for the great advice haha, have a great morning/afternoon/night! Lots of love!!!!! <3
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You cant make the mistake I did on dying.. @Laurem saw them if I'm not wrong lol
And if you don't like school just wait till your 16 and drop out ;)
 
Tommy :( said:
You cant make the mistake I did on dying.. @Laurem saw them if I'm not wrong lol
And if you don't like school just wait till your 16 and drop out ;)
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Dropping out of school is bad advice!
@EommaKai123 dont let what you think other people will say, stop you from doing something you want to do. It’s your choice and your hair and you should do what will make you happy. Don’t drop out of school, hang in there, do your best and your time at school will go faster than you think.
 
Laurem said:
Dropping out of school is bad advice!
@EommaKai123 dont let what you think other people will say, stop you from doing something you want to do. It’s your choice and your hair and you should do what will make you happy. Don’t drop out of school, hang in there, do your best and your time at school will go faster than you think.
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Is not a bad decision.
 
I once dyed my hair a full purple ombre and i was terrified of what kids at my school would think as I am an extremely shy and introverted person in real life. But it turns out everyone loved it and it helped me a bit become less antisocial. I'm sure it'll be fine for you too! Also I do not recommend dropping out of school. And in all it is your choice to dye your hair and do something to make yourself happy. Don't drop out of school, hang in there, school will go by faster then you will think and just do the best you can do. If you need more advice or someone to talk to my pms are always open!
 
InspiringHope said:
I once dyed my hair a full purple ombre and i was terrified of what kids at my school would think as I am an extremely shy and introverted person in real life. But it turns out everyone loved it and it helped me a bit become less antisocial. I'm sure it'll be fine for you too! Also I do not recommend dropping out of school. And in all it is your choice to dye your hair and do something to make yourself happy. Don't drop out of school, hang in there, school will go by faster then you will think and just do the best you can do. If you need more advice or someone to talk to my pms are always open!
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But drop out school is not that bad.
 
I think it's pretty cool that you're making the decision to dye your hair. I've never done that before.

Honestly though, how shallow would it be for people to make fun of you for dying your hair? People dye their hair all the time, it's nothing new. If people make fun of you for it, they're probably either jealous or just shallow. I think you'll look great.

I understand that making a decision about your appearance might make you nervous, especially since you're going back to school soon. But honestly, now is a perfect time to make a change like this! A new school year will mean a new look for you, and it might just give you the excitement boost you need to get out there and have a great year.

(And I agree with the statements above. Don't drop out of school. It goes by very quickly, especially in high school.)
 
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