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So...I need a bit of help.
But this is a serious topic, depending on how you look at it.
Okay..so..here goes.
I'm pansexual, and don't know what gender i identify as. I want to tell my parents, I need to tell my parents. But i'm scared. my Dad seems unsupportive, and my Mom seems worrisome.
I want to tell my friends, but I'm scared. What do I do?

If I tell my Dad, heck knows what would happen. My Mom would tell my Dad, and my few IRL friends would either be weirded out or downright disgusted. I can't get bullied more than I already am.
I need to say something, I'm living a lie to myself.
help
 
I can't tell you anything, I'm in the same situation and I don't know what to do either :/
 
I'm in a similar situation. I'm bisexual, and my parents are just disgusted by the LGBT+ community. All I can say is that I'm here if you need to talk, and I'm sure some others are.
 
EDIT: I can always be your friend too lol. I'm always on the forums, and i'm semi-active on the server too. If have a Skype and you wanna add me, PM me. I'm always here to talk :)
 
Your parents love you and even if they might not agree with who you love or how you identify, I'm sure they want what's best for you. If it's causing you this much emotional distress keeping it to yourself, I think you should be open about it. Like, sitting them down one day and speaking your mind. If they're good parents, even if their initial reaction is negative they'll never stop loving you.

As far as socially, if anyone is causing you stress or treating you bad, do your best to avoid them. You already have enough to deal with at the moment and the pressure of peers will only make matters worse. Remember, you have plenty time to find positive people that will support you through everything, and you won't live your whole life crowded by hundreds of teenagers in school hallways beating you down.

But more than anything, find yourself. Put yourself out there, experiment, don't be afraid. You're a teenager, you still have many years to find yourself and reach closure with who you are. And if you need anyone to go to for advice or simply to chat, feel free to shoot me a message. We're here for you <3
 
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FallingInRomance said:
I'm in a similar situation. I'm bisexual, and my parents are just disgusted by the LGBT+ community. All I can say is that I'm here if you need to talk, and I'm sure some others are.
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EDIT: I can always be your friend too lol. I'm always on the forums, and i'm semi-active on the server too. If have a Skype and you wanna add me, PM me. I'm always here to talk :)
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Thank you, Its nice to I've got someone i can talk to!
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Wanna Muffin (I do this for all these topics so you feel confident... Idk it worked for me.)
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Haha, thanks for the muffin x3
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Your parents love you and even if they might not agree with who you love or how you identify, I'm sure they want what's best for you. If it's causing you this much emotional distress keeping it to yourself, I think you should be open about it. Like, sitting them down one day and speaking your mind. If they're good parents, even if their initial reaction is negative they'll never stop loving you.

As far as socially, if anyone is causing you stress or treating you bad, do your best to avoid them. You already have enough to deal with at the moment and the pressure of peers will only make matters worse. Remember, you have plenty time to find positive people that will support you through everything, and you won't live your whole life crowded by hundreds of teenagers in school hallways beating you down.

But more than anything, find yourself. Put yourself out there, experiment, don't be afraid. You're a teenager, you still have many years to find yourself and reach closure with who you are. And if you need anyone to go to for advice or simply to chat, feel free to shoot me a message. We're here for you <3
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Oh my god that was so heartfelt, thank you so much. I Feel so much better.

Thank you all! I just felt scared and alone and hoped someone else could help or make me not so shaken. I owe you all one ^_^
 
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build courage
tell ur closest friend
get their advice, they won't betray you
follow their advice and put your own twist on it
voila
 
don't worry i'm in a similar situation too. i'm bi and I'm scared i'll be bullied if i come out and I've heard my stepdad use mean words about the lgbt+ community and stuff
plus if i came out everyone would prob think "it's just a phase" but i hope this helped bc you know you're not alone <3
 
Before you come out to your parents, make sure you have somewhere safe you can go if they react badly. This is really important!
A friend's house, or even a shelter depending on your age. There might be places around you for non-cishet people. If your parents' reaction is more positive, take the chance to educate them. There is a lgbt+ wiki somewhere that is a great resource, I can't remember or get the link right now though.
 
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Ohmygod i love all of you. I seriously feel so much better, and today I went to school seeming less shaky and small and everyone knew something had changed. Thank you guys, I feel so much better.
 
I am in the Same Situation, "The Bullying Part", Just Be Yourself, Just Be the @Bitter (Le Noona) That I know :3.
I am being Bullied in High School, I tell my Mom Everyday and The Same thing Everyday "Your Stepdad can Handle the Bullying." I am all like wtf is on her head right now. I have Bruises on my Legs from Freshman Year now I am getting Bruises on my Arms. The Jocks say "We Respect Junior & Seniors" I am only 14 Years Old, I have to learn about Life. I am taking Computer & Art Classes Right Now. Just be You, Bitter. All of PartyZone Players & Staff think Your Cool <3. Just Be yourself <3
 
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I am in the Same Situation, "The Bullying Part", Just Be Yourself, Just Be the @Bitter (Le Noona) That I know :3.
I am being Bullied in High School, I tell my Mom Everyday and The Same thing Everyday "Your Stepdad can Handle the Bullying." I am all like wtf is on her head right now. I have Bruises on my Legs from Freshman Year now I am getting Bruises on my Arms. The Jocks say "We Respect Junior & Seniors" I am only 14 Years Old, I have to learn about Life. I am taking Computer & Art Classes Right Now. Just be You, Bitter. All of PartyZone Players & Staff think Your Cool <3. Just Be yourself <3
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Ohmygosh that's awful your being bullied! And thank you so much, that's very nice of you to say.
Made my day, Lol <3
 
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