No more Kaylum?

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Perhaps the title may be leading some of you to believe I'm resigning from my position as staff, so before you read the entire thing I'd like to inform you that is not at all what this is about.

Now that that is out of the way, let's address the actual topic of this post. I've decided that due to a lack of other's recognition as my identity as male, blantant disrespect and comments that have been made both from my personal life as well as on this server that I'm no longer going to be presenting myself as a male.

I'm rather tired of struggling and fighting to be recognized and frankly I have given up on it. So no more Kaylum, no more He/Him pronouns, no more any of that. I'm going to present myself how they want to view me and see if I can finally stop the constant negativity surrounding myself. (This will involve a name change, amongst other things.)

I'm sorry for those of you I'm disappointing by doing this, but I can't handle it. Perhaps in the future I'll be able to do what I please but at this point in time I'm too exhausted.
 
May I ask what pronouns to use?

<3 <3 <3
 
May I ask what pronouns to use?

<3 <3 <3
I suppose we can go back to She/Her. I'm honestly just caving to what other people want and that's how they refer to me anyways.
 
We understand Kay, do what you need to and we'll be here for you no matter what.
 
Ok, so I've never really known you, but just know that whatever choice you make, we will understand and support you no matter what.
 
We love you no matter the pronouns. <3
 
We understand, this is brave of you to do. <3 we're here for you no matter what
 
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Hey, I don't really know you but I'll support whatever decisions you make. If you want to be referred to with whatever pronouns, then go ahead! You're still human and humans were given the freedom to choose. Don't let anyone make those choices for you.
 
I suppose we can go back to She/Her. I'm honestly just caving to what other people want and that's how they refer to me anyways.
If people are forcing you to use pronouns you don't seem to like, don't listen to them.

Remember:

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Sorry it's such a huge picture, but I love it.
 
Perhaps the title may be leading some of you to believe I'm resigning from my position as staff, so before you read the entire thing I'd like to inform you that is not at all what this is about.

Now that that is out of the way, let's address the actual topic of this post. I've decided that due to a lack of other's recognition as my identity as male, blantant disrespect and comments that have been made both from my personal life as well as on this server that I'm no longer going to be presenting myself as a male.

I'm rather tired of struggling and fighting to be recognized and frankly I have given up on it. So no more Kaylum, no more He/Him pronouns, no more any of that. I'm going to present myself how they want to view me and see if I can finally stop the constant negativity surrounding myself. (This will involve a name change, amongst other things.)

I'm sorry for those of you I'm disappointing by doing this, but I can't handle it. Perhaps in the future I'll be able to do what I please but at this point in time I'm too exhausted.
Wait you're...?
I'm...?
Am confused please explain in easier terms.
Are you male going to female because you're giving up on gender identity or are you female going to male because you're giving up on the human race.
 
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I was out as a trans male for a few months.
 
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Don't let others bring you down Kay. We will love you no matter what but please don't let people make you. Make yourself, you shouldn't change yourself for people in the world. I, if anyone else agrees, don't care what gender you are. I just want to know YOU! I want others to be happy with themselves. Sorry for going on like this I just don't want to to change yourself for other people. I care <3 <3 <3
 
Of course I will support you no matter what, I'll always love you also. You're so sweet and cute. I love you and good luck. <3
 
We'll support you no matter what Kay❤ If you're happy, thats all we want for you. I wish you'd keep fighting, but if it hurts you, we're okay with it. We just want you ro be happy. Love you, Kay. Remember that ❤
 
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