So, this speech is dedicated to a couple of people, and if you have nothing good to say, please don't reply to the thread, because this is technically an opinion, and also a motivational speech.
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Motivation.
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"The reason for people's actions, desires, and needs. Motivation is also one's direction to behavior, or what causes a person to want to repeat a behavior."
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Motivational Speakers.
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"A motivational speaker or inspirational speaker is a speaker who makes speeches intended to motivate or inspire an audience. Such speakers may attempt to challenge or transform their audiences."
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Everyone has a different reason for being motivated. And get motivated easier or harder in certain things, depending. For example, one person might get modivated just by the word competition, and immediately sign up, for said competition, another person might need convincing. Needing good reason.
Motivational speakers specifically provide motivation to keep on going, or something similar.
( Not all, but its how most people see them and I'm going to be directing this based on this form of motivational speaking. ) And the way they speak, is an attempt to reach a goal, for your good, and for themselves. The ultimate goal of a motivational speaker is to change people profoundly on an emotional and/or mental level, and to help them make some kind of professional or personal change in their lives and within themselves. And to be honest, sometimes, this doesn't work. For people who desperately in need. And this little post is for them, because i know what it feels like, and i don't want even more people to go down me road, because it is painful, emotionally, and can get to a level of physical pain.
We were all born different for a reason, and if you're trying to be someone else, its going to make you unhappy. You can be yourself and be judged, but its up to you on how you choose to let it effect you. You an either ignore it know deep down it hurt, but overcome it by accepting it, or just let it be, or cling onto everyword and LET it hurt you and not let it go. There are reasons we do this, so motivational speakers saying "Let it go" Isn't good enough, as its actually a lot harder than you think. But in all honesty, fight it. Or it will hurt you emotionally, and can hurt you in the long run. If you've been hurt now and still hurt, please try talking to someone, you know you can trust, don't go up to everyone and go "hey I'm dying inside" or people WILL honestly take advantage of you, and it will start to hurt more, and can eventually start to mess with your trusting ability. Choose one person you believe you can trust, and spill the beans. You can't do this on your own. Even if its a stranger, please talk. There are even websites that honestly do help. I can't guarantee happiness, and i will not give false hope, but you need to atleast have faith and try to stand up again. Even iif you cannot find a reason for fighting, just try to dtand up to find a reason to fight. Even if a constant wave throws you under, just keep swimming, because in the end, you'll be happy you did. Also, do you know the phrase, "somebody always had it worse than you"? If you have and take it litreally, than know this. This phrase is absolutely stupid. Of course someone has it worse! But pain comes in many forms and each form needs to be cared for, no matter how small it is. Because some people see this phrase as "somebody always has it worse than you, so don't even bother complaining". No. Thats not right, this phrase is the stupidest thing I've ever heard and read in my life. Some people try to see this as a reason to be "oh thats good, that means i don't have that bad!" Kudos to you, you actually tried to make it positive and think "yay that means I'm happy". Then again it makes people lie to themselves and fight eternally inside... either way stop. That phrase is absolutely disgusting, and is a reason why people get hurt.
Anyway, if you're unhappy and need help, please talk to someone, I'm always here, and if you don't trust me, go to someone you trust or websites for your situations. Somebody out there cares for you. Please tell someone... or it could end with a big bang full of regret.
Click here for national hotlines❤
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Motivation.
♡
"The reason for people's actions, desires, and needs. Motivation is also one's direction to behavior, or what causes a person to want to repeat a behavior."
~
Motivational Speakers.
♡
"A motivational speaker or inspirational speaker is a speaker who makes speeches intended to motivate or inspire an audience. Such speakers may attempt to challenge or transform their audiences."
~
Everyone has a different reason for being motivated. And get motivated easier or harder in certain things, depending. For example, one person might get modivated just by the word competition, and immediately sign up, for said competition, another person might need convincing. Needing good reason.
Motivational speakers specifically provide motivation to keep on going, or something similar.
( Not all, but its how most people see them and I'm going to be directing this based on this form of motivational speaking. ) And the way they speak, is an attempt to reach a goal, for your good, and for themselves. The ultimate goal of a motivational speaker is to change people profoundly on an emotional and/or mental level, and to help them make some kind of professional or personal change in their lives and within themselves. And to be honest, sometimes, this doesn't work. For people who desperately in need. And this little post is for them, because i know what it feels like, and i don't want even more people to go down me road, because it is painful, emotionally, and can get to a level of physical pain.
We were all born different for a reason, and if you're trying to be someone else, its going to make you unhappy. You can be yourself and be judged, but its up to you on how you choose to let it effect you. You an either ignore it know deep down it hurt, but overcome it by accepting it, or just let it be, or cling onto everyword and LET it hurt you and not let it go. There are reasons we do this, so motivational speakers saying "Let it go" Isn't good enough, as its actually a lot harder than you think. But in all honesty, fight it. Or it will hurt you emotionally, and can hurt you in the long run. If you've been hurt now and still hurt, please try talking to someone, you know you can trust, don't go up to everyone and go "hey I'm dying inside" or people WILL honestly take advantage of you, and it will start to hurt more, and can eventually start to mess with your trusting ability. Choose one person you believe you can trust, and spill the beans. You can't do this on your own. Even if its a stranger, please talk. There are even websites that honestly do help. I can't guarantee happiness, and i will not give false hope, but you need to atleast have faith and try to stand up again. Even iif you cannot find a reason for fighting, just try to dtand up to find a reason to fight. Even if a constant wave throws you under, just keep swimming, because in the end, you'll be happy you did. Also, do you know the phrase, "somebody always had it worse than you"? If you have and take it litreally, than know this. This phrase is absolutely stupid. Of course someone has it worse! But pain comes in many forms and each form needs to be cared for, no matter how small it is. Because some people see this phrase as "somebody always has it worse than you, so don't even bother complaining". No. Thats not right, this phrase is the stupidest thing I've ever heard and read in my life. Some people try to see this as a reason to be "oh thats good, that means i don't have that bad!" Kudos to you, you actually tried to make it positive and think "yay that means I'm happy". Then again it makes people lie to themselves and fight eternally inside... either way stop. That phrase is absolutely disgusting, and is a reason why people get hurt.
Anyway, if you're unhappy and need help, please talk to someone, I'm always here, and if you don't trust me, go to someone you trust or websites for your situations. Somebody out there cares for you. Please tell someone... or it could end with a big bang full of regret.
Click here for national hotlines❤
