Help ;-;

[allykardashian]

I'm trying to tell my mom I'm pretty much gay since shes easier to handle and so its easier to tell my dad later since hes not really a big fan of LGB etc. But all my mom is doing is saying what honey so she pretends she either doesnt care or doesnt really agree at all. And its going to be even harder to tell my friends that Im gay tomorrow. Im scared that my dad will hate me when I tell him and Im scared my friends wont approve and say stuff like 'ew your gay' or 'go away then' ;-; I have been up most of the night thinking about it and really thinking about it just worries me and keeps me awake which means I get no sleep. Please give me advice Im so upset and worried atm Even confused. As your a very nice community I wanted to share it on here and hope to get some support. Update you if i get any good responses from my parents or friends.

 

[alexithymia]

I'm trying to tell my mom I'm pretty much gay since shes easier to handle and so its easier to tell my dad later since hes not really a big fan of LGB etc. But all my mom is doing is saying what honey so she pretends she either doesnt care or doesnt really agree at all. And its going to be even harder to tell my friends that Im gay tomorrow. Im scared that my dad will hate me when I tell him and Im scared my friends wont approve and say stuff like 'ew your gay' or 'go away then' ;-; I have been up most of the night thinking about it and really thinking about it just worries me and keeps me awake which means I get no sleep. Please give me advice Im so upset and worried atm Even confused. As your a very nice community I wanted to share it on here and hope to get some support. Update you if i get any good responses from my parents or friends.

I'm in the same situation, so I can't help. Apologies

 

[allykardashian]

I'm in the same situation, so I can't help. Apologies

Thats alright. Hey atleast i know someone is going through the same situation

 

[Schnozmo]

As I am also gay, and I have not told my parents // family, and only my online friends know, its very hard sometimes, just tell them when your ready!

 

[Etgar]

Well, I Told My Parents I Was Pan.. It didn't quite go to plan tbh >.<

 

[reddd]

I'm straight, so I'm not used to any of this. Ive just gone on with my life.

I'm sure your friends and family will not say anything bad or upset you. They need to love you for who you are. I'm sure you'll be fine

 

[Schnozmo]

Lol

 

[fizz]

Honestly, take your time coming out. You could maybe hint it every now and then, but not make it so obvious.
When I told my parents they didn't change how they thought of me, if they loved me before what difference does it make if I like boys? Yes, it doesn't. If you want to tell them, go ahead c: As long as you feel comfortable being who you are. I'm sure they'll still love you just as much and will care for you

 

[iNeedSpeed]

I have a gay friend named noah, he told me his story of how he came out. Like Emohh said, just hint at it, let them get used to that kind of behaviour i guess.

 

[allykardashian]

Thanks guys! All of this is really helping me and helping me get sleep at night. Honestly if I didnt make this I would be as worried as i was 2 weeks ago. You are all such a nice and helpful community. Thanks!