You are so supportive to anyone in so many ways. Knowing someone like you is on this forums/server, is very comforting. You are a great person in so many ways, without trying.
Weird question, but did you choose the name Kaylum yourself for you? How did you do it? I personally climbed a mountain in the Adirondacks named Hadley and it was gorgeous, so I chose the name Hadley- my birth name was faarrr too feminine for me.